If you had to choose between having sex before marriage and waiting till the marriage but masturbating with use of sex toys then what would you choose?

This is the update to my initial question. I'm grateful for all answers you gave me. I gave them a good thought through and realized that maybe even in my situation it is really better to wait till the marriage (who'd have thought?) and I know I will be able to do it if I'll have a substitute of an actual intercourse in a form of fleshlights/onaholes/woman torso male masturbators/etc. But I want to see your opinions on that. I know you gonna tell me that masturbation is a sin and I shouldn't neither fornicate nor masturbate but this is not an option for me. As I mentioned in the initial question my libido is very high. Suppressing my biological needs and abstinence not only from fornication but from masturbation too at the same time will just ruin me mentally and I'll end up healing my psyche with psychotherapists long and difficult. And while I'll be receiving my psyche treatment it'll be even harder for me to find a girl to marry with to do it all the right way.