AITA For not picking my bf up after getting punched?

So my (F32) partner (M30) went away this weekend for a mates birthday with a group of the guys leaving me home for the weekend with our two girls (4y & 1y)

At 2:35 this morning I woke up to him calling me, the first call I didn’t pick up as he has been known to just butt dial me or drunk dial me not realising the time. He rang a second time but hung up before I could answer and immediately called again a third time, this time I answered on time. He’s clearly pretty drunk on the other end and is trying to tell me a story - eventually he gets it out that he got into an argument with one of his friends let’s call him ‘A’ about something that isn’t relevant to this story. They’re all pretty drunk as they’ve been going non stop for hours at this point. Another guy at the house ends up punching my bf in the nose a few times and he ends up bleeding. They get separated by the other guys in the house to cool off and the other guy even apologises saying that he gets a bit reactive. The guy who punched him is also the guy that drove my bf and ‘A’ down to where they were staying. He’s asking me to come get him, he doesn’t want to stay there, he’s got blood on his shorts and he wants to fight the other guy (his pride is wounded).

It’s 2:45am and he’s 3 HOURS away. Both our girls are obviously sleeping and I’m still groggy from waking up He’s insistent on me getting him and I’m hesitant and he’s saying that if I ever called him for the same reason he’d obviously come.

I end up getting them in the car hoping they’ll go back to sleep but 30minutes in I realise that I missed my phone payment and my services have been shut off and I’m waiting for my paycheck to be able to pay it. So I can’t even call him when I get there let alone if anything happens on the road and I get stuck or in trouble I can’t call for help.

So I pull into the next McDonalds I pass and using free wi-fi send him a message explaining that my phone service is cut off and I just do not feel comfortable or all that safe making the trip and that I’m sorry before heading back home.

Now I’m sitting in bed feeling super conflicted about my choice. Obviously if it was really serious like he’d been stabbed or seriously injured it’d be a different story but AITA?

Update: After I got home and my phone connected to the wifi he still hadn’t seen the message or been active on messenger so I thought he’d maybe fallen asleep but about 20 minutes later got a message back

“What? You not coming? Are you f***ing seafood”

That last one will hopefully be a source of a good joke later on

I finally fell asleep again at about 6am (I would have only just been getting to him them)

I haven’t heard from him yet this morning.