Why Virgo men?

Okay so my brother is a Virgo I have met other virgos why is it they have the highest high horse on earth like dude chill your worse than a Leo at this point so self absorbed the need to be right all the time the need to sit there and complain when things aren’t perfect, but won’t do anything to help. They are worse than Pisces. I feel like in the emotional skill. It’s just crazy anyone else feel that way? And if I’m wrong, please fill me in because it might just be my family and the people that I’ve been around.