Am I wrong?

Tell me a different scenario other than the very obvious one. Is there any other possibility? Background context: -country club is the other bar in a small town -he works at the other bar a couple nights a week. This was one night he worked. -i was just texting him how hanging out with other women &drinking crosses a boundary im not comfortable with. In the past he has hung out with other women and drove around with them in the middle of the night and of course claimed nothing happened and was all innocent. He always is messaging women trying to get to know them. He basically always has to put out there that hes looking for something and i think this girl just took the bait. He gaslights me every time i see anything that crosses the line. -at 11:30 he texted that he loved me while texting this girl. -unimportant, but she is a single mother to a little boy. Says a lot about her character getting with a guy who has 3 littles at home including a 4 month old.

Tell me im wrong. Im a sahm so its not so easy to leave and i really dont want to give up everything we had and could have. I know its silly but i cant let go of the hope for us. Its funny though, i thought we were getting better. Our marriage seemed stronger. Jokes on me.

Tell me a different scenario other than the very obvious one. Is there any other possibility? Background context: -country club is the other bar in a small town -he works at the other bar a couple nights a week. This was one night he worked. -i was just texting him how hanging out with other women &drinking crosses a boundary im not comfortable with. In the past he has hung out with other women and drove around with them in the middle of the night and of course claimed nothing happened and was all innocent. He always is messaging women trying to get to know them. He basically always has to put out there that hes looking for something and i think this girl just took the bait. He gaslights me every time i see anything that crosses the line. -at 11:30 he texted that he loved me while texting this girl. -unimportant, but she is a single mother to a little boy. Says a lot about her character getting with a guy who has 3 littles at home including a 4 month old.

Tell me im wrong. Im a sahm so its not so easy to leave and i really dont want to give up everything we had and could have. I know its silly but i cant let go of the hope for us. Its funny though, i thought we were getting better. Our marriage seemed stronger. Jokes on me.