Help with NYE, I want to be frugal

Hello fellow frugal people, I come here asking for help.

So my husband and I have been living a frugal lifestyle for 2 or 3 years, so we have adjusted well to it.

The thing is, I am guilty of going big during Christmas season, specially in NYE. I usually spend some of the money I saved during the year so my husband and I can go to a fancy restaurant or hotel to celebrate NYE.

This year money is tight on both of us, and going out feels kinda wasteful money wise, also my husband is working a very demanding physical job so most of the time he is tired so I want to be mindful of that.

My husband is now feeling guilty because he feels that we are not going to celebrate the way I like. This is where I need your help. Can you please give me suggestions, tips, anything in how to be frugal but still feel festive? IYKWIM. Everything is appreciated. Thanks in advance.