Entitled or not?

TLDR: mom brought up that she got money from parents for house, so I asked if she’d do the same. Received a sharp response that I was entitled for asking.

My mom was telling me about how her parents gave her (and my dad) 10% down payment for their house when they bought in the 90s.

So naturally I ask if they are planning on doing something similar to help me and my wife out in this crazy market right now.

The response: “Are you that entitled that you’d ask us for money after everything we’ve done to raise you?”

I honestly never expected it and wouldn’t have even asked if she didn’t bring up the fact about my grandparents helping her. She knows we are looking, so I thought it was the start of a broader conversation about financial support

Context: they did help pay for some of my college so that after scholarships, I only had about $30k in loans upon graduation. They raised me well, can’t complain about that. They are solidly middle class, with their mortgage fully paid off, and will be retiring next year with 80% pensions. So by no means wealthy, but they are set for life based on income vs expenses.

Anybody else with similar experiences?

Edit: my grandparents fully paid for my mom’s college, so her and my dad contributing to my college, while fantastic for me and I’m grateful for it, is not a difference compared to what my grandparents did for her.