Advice needed (super clingy cat becoming destructive)

Just as the title says My boyfriend and I adopted a cat, she happens to be about a year and 2 months. She's very sweet and loving and absolutely needs attenion. She loves being on our lap and constantly wants to play, which we think is incredibly cute! We have tried to keep up with her but it seems like it's just getting even worse, she's demanding more and more. And before anyone says she needs more play time and love, if she could get that 24/7 she would. That's not the issue in itself, the issue is we give her an incredible amount of attention when we are home but she's suddenly becoming really destructive. It came out of nowhere, I'm almost unsure if we are giving her too much attention which is making her even more demanding and causing attention seeking behavior? It's becoming overwhelming and we no longer have any decorations in our home, can't have curtains, or shower curtains. She began tipping things over now and meowing even longer It's beginning to feel like we are being manhandled by this cat, she wont stop meowing. I can't help but to feel awful because I don't know if we just aren't giving her what she needs? We both work full workdays but now fully dedicate most of our off time to her and it seems like it just not enough. We are getting stressed :( It's gotten in the way of life, I stopped going to the gym fully because I'm afraid she will become even more destructive.

She has plenty of toys, scratch posts and things to climb on, maze bowls, water fountain and on top of thay we play with a feather wand. Another cat is definitely not an option, our apartment is just not big enough and we are already tight on money. She is absolutely healthy, the vet scanned for everything.

Is there any advice on clingy attention seeking cats? We love her so much but are starting to feel incredibly overwhelemed. This is the first clingy cat I've owned so I'm just not used to it at all