Has anyone dealt with offputting/invasive behaviour from other women?

Okay, not sure if I flaired it right but let me provide context so this doesn't get misintepreted:

I come from a VERY conservative culture. Think the Regency era sex politics in Jane Austen novels. Once, I remember I was walking down the street, rushing to the store to get something, when this nosy neighbour lady stopped me. I was wearing clothing that covered me entirely from head to toe but was rather loose and our families somewhat know each other so I didn't really have a choice but to listen to her:

Me: Hello

Her: Darling, I think you should wear a bra. Also, (she adjusted my scarf), you need to learn to do a better job to cover your breasts (nabs a finger in my chest), and your behind (nabs a finger in my hip), because otherwise men might harass you on the street.

I thought that whole encounter was ironic, and her daughter who was with her looked embarrassed herself.