I don't like the gay hookup culture. Is that okay?

This doesn't mean that I don't like to have sex. I want to have sex. But if I have casual hookups, I tend to get emotionally attached with them and end up feeling broken. I only want to have sex with someone I love; Someone who wants me as much as I want them. It's hard to find one like. I am afraid that I'll have to be single forever and live without having sex. What do you guys think?