AIO for getting super emotional after husband punched my leg under the dinner table

context: it was a very soft punch on my leg, he we were having dinner with his family, he was upset about some family drama between him and his brother (i didn’t know he was upset at the time), i ordered some food to his brother and he punched my leg under the table.

he’s never done anything like that before. the reason im triggered is because my previous marriage had a lot of domestic abuse. it was really bad and i used to avoid visiting family or friends because i would be bruised up everywhere.

im holding back tears as i type this. i know it was a soft punch but it sent me back 5 years